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Who
is that beautiful Blonde? Brunette? Redhead??? Roberta "Mindy"
Mindykowski always thought if she experienced a reoccurrence of cancer
she would not disguise her condition. "With my first diagnosis of
breast cancer, I bought a wig that looked as close to my hair as
possible," Mindy said. "I always said if the cancer comes
back, I will have fun with wigs and use a variety of looks to provoke
questions. That will give me a chance to deliver my message about breast
cancer prevention, detection and treatment."
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Mindy is a Patient Account Follow-up Specialist with US Oncology
Management Company of Florida. She was diagnosed with breast cancer in
1996, and underwent a mastectomy and chemotherapy.
She lost her mother to breast cancer and said she felt it was not a
matter of whether she was going to be diagnosed with cancer, but when. Although she
was frightened, Mindy said she was not angry and made a decision
immediately after her first diagnosis. "You can either give up, or
you can accept and move forward." Mindy said she decided to live in
spite of the cancer.
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Always
positive, Mindy chose to turn a bad situation into something good and
started working as a volunteer with the American Cancer Society. A Reach
to Recovery volunteer visited Mindy after her diagnosis. The
program matches women who have survived breast cancer with women who are
newly diagnosed. Mindy was so moved that she asked to be part of the
program. She is now Co-Coordinator of the American Cancer Society’s
Pinellas County Reach to Recovery Program, Chairperson for the
American Cancer Society Patient Service Committee, Team Captain for the Making
Strides Against Cancer walk, a member of the Survivor’s
Committee and serves on the Board of Directors.
"It
is all about attitude." Mindy says, "Life is 10 percent what happens
to you, and 90 percent how you react to it." It is because of this
unfaltering bravery, that the American Cancer Society honored Mindy this
year with their 2002 Courage Award. Jonathan Bledsoe, Executive Director
for the Pinellas County American Cancer Society, said "Mindy is a shining
example of courage." He added, "The award is presented to a
select few who show exemplary courage in their battle against cancer,
not allowing the cancer to stop their normal routines." Kim
Trott, a friend and co-worker agrees, adding "Mindy encourages
everyone she comes in contact with to stay positive. She is an
inspiration to all she meets. Her heart is
big and she shares it without compromise." Allen Pittman, Executive
Director, states "The way Mindy embraces life and her work is
beyond description. She is an extraordinary employee and a warm and
generous human being. She is a role model to everyone with whom she
comes in contact."
After
reaching her six year survivorship mark, Mindy did not expect her
cancer to return. However, she recently felt an odd sensation and found
a small lump in her upper arm. She immediately saw her oncologist, and
although her tumor markers were normal, a biopsy proved positive. Mindy
began to fight cancer for the second time. She says she is encouraged by
the improvement in cancer treatment in the last 6 years, stating in
particular, the advancement in medications resulting in fewer side
effects. She says she wants to treat the disease as aggressively as
possible and will undergo high dose chemotherapy and stem cell
transplantation in the next month. Mindy credits her husband and two
sons with giving her love and strength to fight this disease. She says
they have been by her side through this journey and her husband is
currently being trained to serve as her caretaker through the stem cell
transplant treatment. Mindy will stay at the American Cancer Society
Hope Lodge during treatment.
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Mindy’s
outlook is extraordinary. She is crusading for a cause and wants
to spread the word to all women to educate themselves, perform
self-breast examinations and get their mammograms. She also
wants to educate the public on the services of the American
Cancer Society. Mindy said when her mother was diagnosed they
thought the American Cancer Society was only a source of
statistical information. Now an esteemed member of the American
Cancer Society’s network of volunteers, Mindy is continually
spreading the word on the vast amount of programs they have
available to cancer patients and their families. |
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Mindy’s
courage award is inscribed In Recongition Of The Inspiration You Have
Offered To Other Cancer Survivors And The Courage You Have Demonstrated
In Your Fight Against Cancer. All those who have been touched by
Mindy’s powerful strength, never ending stamina and gentle compassion
agree that she is an inspiration to each and every one she meets. |